By Mark Pukalo
It was Sunday, September 3, 1981, my first weekend on campus at UConn before classes began. I didn't know too many people, but decided to follow the crowd to the stadium for the men's soccer opener against Saint Louis.
It became one of the best games I ever saw in person for any sport.
I sat amongst the crazies behind the North goal and watched the Huskies win 4-3 in overtime. I had a new passion. One Halloween I actually dressed up as UConn coach Joe Morrone, with a suit jacket and a clipboard.
I had been a little interested in soccer over the years, especially when Pele came to the New York Cosmos. I monitored New England Tea Men games on the radio. I remember listening to UConn lose on an icy field at Hartwick in the 1990 NCAA quarterfinals.
But that day in 1981, and that season, was when I became a soccer fan. I went to games with my floormates from Fairfield Hall in the Jungle. Am I remembering right? Did we actually take a keg to the game on Wednesdays?
Not sure. Can't be true.
However, that season ended with me screaming in the kitchen at home in Canterbury after hearing the call of Jim D'Orsaneo's flying header off Jimmy Lyman's perfect cross to win the national championship. The next season we braved a snowstorm to watch the Huskies lose to Columbia in the quarterfinals.
When I got to the Courant, I was able to write about a few UConn men's games the first couple years, but I did not cover the prominent contests until Ray Reid took over as coach in 1997. While the UConn administration was sloppy and careless the way they treated Morrone at the end, Reid did an amazing job. I wrote about the transition for Soccer America magazine.
Reid was more guarded than most coaches, which made it difficult at times. However, once he got his system in place, he loosened up just a bit. His 2000 team allowed me to write a national championship game story.
That was a memorable weekend as UConn beat a talented SMU team in the semifinals and took care of Creighton in the final with one of my favorite players and people Chris Gbandi leading the way. Gbandi is now the coach in Storrs.
"When the final seconds had ticked away and another talented offensive team had been shut out, they sprinted to their fans and leaped into the crowd. They danced. They hugged. Every second was savored.
The UConn men's soccer team always believed it could be the best in the country. Now, on the same turf where their season ended in tears a year earlier in the semifinals, the Huskies had proved they were champions."
The lasting memory of that game at Ericsson Stadium in Charlotte was Darin Lewis scoring the second goal in the 2-0 win before running to where Connecticut was painted on the field and laying on the T while extending his arms.
It was not my first final four of college soccer. It was my fifth, and last.
My Favorite Soccer Team: "The Sensational Seven"
When the 90s began, I started covering more college soccer. Many weekend afternoons and weekday nights were spent at the University of Hartford. The only bad thing about that was I had to drive over the colossal speed bumps while weaving my way to Al-Marzook Field.
Hated those things. They were like mountains.
No doubt my favorite season was in 1992, when the Lady Hawks took me on a wonderful ride all the way to the Final Four in Chapel Hill, N.C. The cover of the media guide pictured the seniors on that team with a caption reading "The Sensational Seven Seniors."
Whoever came up with that line nailed it.
"When (the seniors) came in as freshmen, they changed the program," Hartford coach Austin Daniels said that year. "There was a solid group there already, but these players were the ones that made the difference in 1989 and got better each year."
Nancy Kramarz, Karen Romero, Km LeMere (bottom from left), Suzanne Laakman, Jeannae Dergance, Beth DeBlasio, Tammy Thompson (top from left). I knew LeMere from covering her in high school at Torrington and Thompson at Simsbury. Kramarz and LeMere are two of my favorite people along the 40-year journey.
The younger players on that team were great as well, like spirited freshmen Jessica Reifer from California and Amy Fournier from Washington. Junior Rose Daley was awesome beside LeMere up front. I covered Jewel Cooper, Jann Gregory, Lisa Kesselman and Kim Early in high school while Stacy Roth was a co-ed soccer teammate for a few games later on. Great players. Great young women. All of them. And they had a perfect role model.
Daniels was the calm, steady hand on that team's back. The UConn grad became a friend and I was sad to hear he passed away from a long illness last year. He is missed.
There were so many great games to cover that year, but none better than the matchups with coach Jim Rudy and UMass, along with the incredible game against UConn at home. Hartford won 2-1 in front of a huge crowd against the Huskies. A picture of LeMere celebrating the winner, sliding on her knees with arms straight up in the air (below) graced the Sports cover.
Those were the days at the Courant. Great photos, editors who knew what was important, and no on-line stories needed.
Everything set up a battle for a spot in the Final Four with UMass on a frigid November day at Al-Marzook. The Hawks were able to celebrate on the field as they pulled out a 2-1 victory. Owen Canfield was there with me and wrote a wonderful column, as only he could, without seeing the team all year.
The Hawks had a date with Duke in the national semifinals and I took the trip to Tar Heel Country. It was one of my favorites. I was able to get a press pass to the Dean Dome for a basketball game (Cinnamon Pretzels, yum) and really enjoyed the campus.
The only downer was the Hartford offense could not get on track and the Blue Devils earned a 1-0 victory. The Hawks were disappointed they would not get a chance against Mia Hamm, Kristine Lilly and the Tar Heels - even though NC won 9-1 in the championship game played on a sloppy field.
The night after the semifinal game was spent in the hotel bar with the coaches and the seniors. They had moved on. They laughed, they danced, Every time I hear the song "Hip Hop Hurray" from Naughty by Nature, I think of that night. I tried to get them to play some Bruce on the jukebox, but I was outvoted.
Daniels left for Colorado in 1996 and Mark Krikorian brought the Hawks to the NCAA quarterfinals in 1999. That gave me a trip to Penn State where Hartford was beaten 2-0. The soccer field was in the vicinity of the great football stadium. What a campus.
Those teams were solid, but could not match the guts, talent and the personality of the 1992 group. It's been almost 33 years. Heyyyy Ho. ... Heyyyy Ho. Miss those days.
The Whalers And Whalen
The UConn women's team allowed me a trip to the Final Four in Greensboro, N.C. in 1997. The Huskies beat Hartford in double overtime in the second round and routed William & Mary in the quarterfinals to set up a date with powerful Notre Dame.
It was also the first year after the Whalers had moved to Carolina and I was assigned to write a story on the atmosphere at the Greensboro Coliseum. It was good to visit some of the players who made the move to Carolina like Kevin Dineen, Sean Burke, Sami Kapanen, Keith Primeau, Jeff O'Neill, Adam Burt, Geoff Sanderson and Glen Wesley.
I took some shots at Carolina in the story, so apparently it was well received in Hartford. But my primary job that weekend was the UConn women and they gave me an exciting game to cover in the semifinals.
Notre Dame outshot the Huskies badly, but Sara Whalen (left) scored twice and Ellington's Heather Stone made some key saves for coach Len Tsantiris in a 2-1 victory. My press seat was behind the goal where UConn preserved the victory in the second half.
"Put them in any order you want, but the three elements UConn needed against Notre Dame in their NCAA women's soccer semifinal materialized on a magical Friday.
Defense. Luck. Sara Whalen."
North Carolina had too much for the Huskies in the final with US national team players Cindy Parlow and the very likeable Lorrie Fair leading the way to a 2-0 win. I recapped the Final Four in a story for Soccer Digest when I got home.
UConn had plenty of talented players and great people as well, led by Kristen Graczyk (now Corona), and including Carey Dorn, Chrissy McCann, Jen Carlson, Kerry Conners, Kerry Page, Karen Ferguson and Sarah Barnes - among others.
That 1992 game at Al-Marzook and the magical Friday afternoon in Greensboro top the list of UConn women's soccer moments for me.
Two Years With Sasho
A young coach with a big personality took over the Hartford men in 1991 and turned the Hawks into an NCAA tournament team.
Sasho Cirovski was smart, friendly and commanded attention with a strong team in 1991. The Hawks won the league title on the wet turf at Nickerson Field against BU to reach the NCAAs for the first time, led by forward Vito Serafini among others.
I traveled to Columbia for the first round win, but could not follow Hartford to Charlottesville to see their 2-1 loss in four overtimes against Virginia. The Cavaliers went on to win the national title.
The Hawks made it back to the NCAAs next year, but lost at Seton Hall in the first round. Then, Cirovski was gone. Maryland stole him away and the Terrapins have won three national titles since.
Cirovski (left) called me after he decided to take the job in Maryland. He was almost apologetic. He thanked me for my work. I told him how much fun it was covering his teams and wished him luck. I heard he later nominated me for the New England Soccer Writer of the Year. Didn't come close to winning, of course. But it was nice of him.
Hartford wasn't the same to cover afterward. Jim Evans had some success, but did not have the same personality and talent as Cirovski. I was able to take a trip to UNC-Charlotte for an NCAA quarterfinal game, which the Hawks lost 3-0 in 1996, but they only made the NCAAs twice.
Southern Nights In Florida
Ray Reid built a dynasty at Southern Connecticut before taking over at UConn. I rarely saw them play, but I was able to cover the Owls in the Division II Final Four twice.
The Owls beat Gannon 2-0 in the 1993 semifinals and lost in the final at Melbourne, Fla. However, the thing I remember most about that weekend was the pulsating semifinal game between Seattle Pacific and host Florida Tech.
My story was in already and just needed a line on who won the other semifinal that would never end. The teams tied 3-3 in regulation and skillful Tech delivered two goals in overtime to take the lead, but Seattle Pacific scored with 62 seconds left in the second OT and in the waning seconds to survive. After 30 more minutes of scoreless sudden-death OT, it took 13 rounds to end the penalty-kick shootout in Seattle Pacific's favor.
A story on the internet said the game last 4 hours and 7 minutes. It is one of the best soccer games I have ever seen for skill and drama. Just amazing.
The two players I remember most from that Southern team were talented goalie Bo Oshonyi and midfielder George Kiefer, who would later become the head coach at USF.
The following year Southern returned to the Sunshine State as I was introduced to my future home. The Owls took on the University of Tampa in a 0-0 tie as goalkeeper Rick Koczak from Wallingford put on a show before the hosts won a PK shootout.
Tampa felt like home. It wasn't long before I started vacationing here. I guess I can thank the Owls
Central Had Plenty Of Heart
You almost forget about Central Connecticut soccer, but I had some good times occasionally covering teams coached by Shaun Green (men) and Mick D'Arcy (women).
Green, a product of Newcastle, England, was a great interview and stuck around for more than 30 years as coach - well after I left the state. It all nearly ended in the early 2000s when he suffered a heart attack. His recovery turned into a feature story for me. I look back at some of the quotes now and think about how just being diagnosed with heart failure a few years ago changed my life.
"The problem is you tend to think you always have something left in your account," Green said. "You always save a little bit of yourself. Since then, I'm not that way. I try to get as much out of every day as I possibly can. Every day is worth 10 times what it was before. ... If I do live until 80, I'd feel blessed that I had a heart attack. It's made me a much better person."
I knew D'Arcy (left) a little before he took over as coach at Central. He was an assistant with both the men and women at Hartford and worked for Tony DiCicco's camps. D'Arcy, a native of Ireland, is approaching his 26th year as coach. I can still hear him yelling "Ohhhh, Mr. Referee!"
The best memory I have of his team was their 1-0 victory at Boston College in the first round of the 2003 NCAA Tournament. I wrote my story in a little hut near the field, on the outskirts of the campus. Kelly Shimmin led the Blue Devils, who lost to UConn in the second round 3-2 in three overtimes. Don't remember that game. Perhaps I was covering something else that day.
The Huskies went on to the NCAA championship game that year, only to lose 6-0 to North Carolina.
Woooooooo!
Some of the players with the men's college teams I covered went on to suit up for the Connecticut Wolves.
The Onolfo Family founded the team that played in the USISL to start in 1993. Clif Onolfo ran the Wolves for the first four years until the city of New Britain bought the team. While his brother Curt played for the national team and was always classy, Clif was more of a snake-oil salesman.
It was a poorly run team off the field, but there were some memorable moments at Willow Brook Park. Tony Meola showed up to play one night for example. I think Glastonbury's Erik Barbieri scored on him. They met a club team from Latvia one night. National team player Janusz Michallik played some games with the Wolves in 1995 as well.
The best thing about the Wolves was player/coach Leszek Wrona. The former Polish national was always a pleasure to talk to. He went on to coach other teams and then led the girls and boys squads at Plainville High.
On To MLS
The 1994 World Cup created a buzz that turned into a new pro league in America. Major League Soccer opened its doors in 1996 and I was allowed to cover the teams in Foxborough and New Jersey the first few years.
I traveled to cover the New England Revolution more often than the New York/New Jersey MetroStars and had a lot of fun with it. The Revs had a good following and some characters, led by Italian goalie Walter Zenga early on.
I didn't write on deadline some nights in Foxborough and I can remember zipping out to the media lot after the game ended, listening to the Beatles classic song "Revolution." You always worried if MLS would survive early on, but look at it now.
I covered the first MLS Cup final as D.C. United beat the LA Galaxy 3-2 in Foxborough. Not sure about 1999 and 2002. Really enjoyed some of the Revs teams that could never win a Cup. Michael Parkhurst (left) was one of the best defenders and Shalrie Joseph was fun to watch in the middle of the field while Taylor Twellman and Clint Dempsey could score with anyone.
Twellman seemed to start every answer after games with "At the end of the day. ...," which became a running joke in the press box. Later, he became an analyst on TV. Maybe he was just fooling with us.
Dempsey was a force, and always a good quote. However, some of the players used to joke about how bad his try at rap music was. Lots of swear words. LOL.
Miss those trips for night games at Gillette Stadium. I don't watch as much soccer these days. Perhaps some day, I will get into it again.
Those crisp autumn days in New England will not be forgotten, though. Whether it was Joe Morrone Stadium, Al-Marzook Field or even at Yale, where the men made a run in 1991 under Steve Griggs and Rudy Meredith's women reached the round of 16 in 2005, it was more than just a job.
Soccer was my life in the 90s.